ok, so my hairs like 3 inches below my shoulder i have grown out side bangs. and i was wondering, is it more attractive to grow hair really really long, like a few inches below your boobs? or to get "scene style" bangs and layers at the crown and tease it and also cut hair to be a little below the shoulders and razored? don't call me a poser, because i'm sure a lot of you will, just answer the question, thankyou.